Why people become stubborn when we interfere in their businesses? 

We have a friend who also likes to talk to others. It will ask you why you don't further your education, why you don't take up a hobby, why you don't change the way you dress, why you don't change your hairstyle. The catchphrase is why don't you do that? Asking about it makes you a little skeptical of life and thinks you're not thinking ahead...and then you have to act like I'm doing it for your own good. Uh, none of your business. At first I was just changing the subject, after all, freedom of speech, she said whatever she wanted to say, I do not listen to it. Then it became more and more excessive, so I told her I like the way I am, I'm comfortable. She also said, "Well, you're stubborn. You're the stubborn one, you're the most stubborn, and it's half arsed with how free you are to hate on people all day long. You'll have to express it if you don't want to be interfered with, or she'll think you're fine with it and keep talking. In the meantime just cut down on your interactions with her and be cheerful and don't be influenced by people who are too laid back.

If a man's own affairs are worth meddling with, he will usually meddle with his own affairs. If one's own affairs are not worth meddling with, he will leave his own meaningless affairs and meddle with the affairs of others. This person likes to make mischief, pry, and meddle in other people's affairs, while showing a keen interest in national and family affairs. While running away from the "self", we will either cling to the shoulders of our neighbors and friends, or we will grab them by the throat.

Such nice people fall into two main categories: those who belittle others to highlight the superiority of their values, and those who genuinely feel they have found the right point of view and want to share it with others. It's really easy to distinguish between these two types of people, because it's about whether the other person is well-meaning or malicious. It's almost instinctive to judge people's good intentions or ill intentions, and you can feel it as soon as the other person opens their mouth. Of course, situations where it's difficult to judge exist as well. But it doesn't matter, after all, the other person's subjective thoughts are uncontrollable. And we can correspond only to the other person's behavior. If the teacher just wants to "talk" to you a lot, that's fine, I love this kind of talk, let's break it up and talk about it. As soon as we hear that the other person has an opinion different from our own, we immediately lose patience and close our ears, and then feel that the other person is rudely interfering in our lives. Does this not also make us narrow-minded. The only way to get someone to respect your opinion is for you to respect his opinion and understand his thoughts as well. Then, present your considerations on the same issue. Even if the conversation is not over, I think sharing views honestly with each other is one of the most beautiful acts between people. Of course, the prerequisite here is that the other person is also listening to your thoughts carefully. If the other person is simply trying to make his point and doesn't care what you think, smile and nod to thank him for his enthusiasm and find an excuse to end the conversation. If the person's interference is more than just words, but also behavior, you can pull the plug depending on the degree of interference.

There are such people in life who are "good teachers".

When I was young and naive, I used to want to impose my ideas on others, expecting everyone to approve of me. Now I feel that everyone has the right to think for themselves, regardless of right or wrong, and it is good to respect the opinions of others.

We are all just ordinary people who are not qualified or able to make suggestions or interfere with other people's choices in their lives. We can only cautiously give some opinions and humbly tell others that this is our personal opinion, not necessarily correct.

I have experienced this because I am often interfered by such people, either because I think I have been there and have more experience than the younger ones, or because I am much richer than you and you are still poor after struggling for so many years, so you have to listen to my opinion.

 Why people become stubborn when we interfere in their businesses?